9 Harsh Career Truths I Know at 43 (that I wish I knew at 23) It took me years of: ↳ Thinking talent alone would open doors ↳ Believing I had to be perfect for the next level ↳ Saying “yes” to everything to prove my commitment Through hard lessons, I built a career that works for me, not the other way around. Here are 9 lessons I wish I had learned sooner. Skip the struggle, apply these lessons now: 1. Bad bosses are teachers in disguise ↳ A terrible boss teaches you who not to be. ↳ Build a better career from the free leadership lessons. 2. Most work friends are temporary ↳ Friendships feel deep - until promotions, layoffs. ↳ People move on, so don’t mix career with emotions. 3. Your reputation is built when you’re not in the room ↳ If you don’t shape your narrative, others will. ↳ Become known for something specific and valuable. 4. Loyalty to a company is a one-way street ↳ You’re replaceable at work, not in life. ↳ Prioritize your growth, not just the company’s. 5. People who “like” you won’t always support you ↳ Affection isn’t the same as advocacy. ↳ Gain respect first; opportunities will follow. 6. You’re promoted for problems you solve, not plain work ↳ Your salary is a fee for solving problems. ↳ Solving bigger, messier problems = bigger paychecks. 7. Growth feels like discomfort ↳ Every career leap comes with fear and doubt. ↳ The best professionals push through anyway. 8. Saying "yes" to everything Is career suicide ↳ Overloading yourself won’t earn respect - just burnout. ↳ People respect those who set boundaries. 9. Your network > your resume ↳ Skills open doors, but relationships keep them open. ↳ Connections reveal roles beyond online listings. Which point struck a chord with you? ♻️ Repost to help your network avoid these career mistakes ➕ Follow me (Meera Remani) for more.
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How to Start Posting on LinkedIn (Even if You Feel Like You Have Nothing to Say) A lot of people tell me they want to start posting but feel nervous. They worry they only have a few ideas, or that they won’t be able to keep up a regular rhythm. They wonder if posting even matters for their career (spoiler: it definitely can). The truth is, you already have plenty to say, and LinkedIn is one of the easiest places to share it. Here are some practical ways to begin: 1. Share what you’re learning Talk about a course you’re taking, a podcast that gave you an “aha” moment, or a new tool you just tried. People like hearing about things they can use themselves. 2. Reflect on your work Did your team hit a small win? Did you face a challenge and learn from it? Even the behind-the-scenes of your day can be interesting. 3. Offer practical advice Post a tip that makes your job easier, or a mistake you made that others can avoid. Quick, actionable insights resonate. 4. Highlight people and relationships Celebrate a colleague, thank a mentor, or share wisdom you picked up from a recent conversation. Recognition posts build goodwill. 5. Comment on your industry React to a news story, event, or trend in your field. Share your perspective on why it matters. 6. Share your personal story How did you get into your career? What pivot shaped you? Lessons from your first job are often more relatable than you think. 7. Ask questions Invite discussion with prompts like: “What’s the tool you can’t live without at work?” or “What’s one piece of advice you’d give to someone starting out?” 8. Reuse and remix Turn a slide deck into a few posts, pull takeaways from a talk, or repost an old note with an update. You don’t always need something brand new. 9. Just have fun Tell a story about your kids, share a game you love, post about a hobby outside of work, or even something zany that made you smile. People connect with the human side of you just as much as the professional side. A lot of people say, “Posting on LinkedIn won’t get me a job.” I understand the skepticism, but here’s what I’ve seen: posting helps you get visible. Visibility leads to connections. Connections lead to opportunities. The majority of jobs are filled through networks, not cold applications, which are deadweight in this environment. Posting is not the only step, but it is a proven way to stay top of mind, alongside commenting, calls, events, and more. You don’t need to post daily. Even starting with once a week is enough. Collect ideas in a notes app as they come to you, then pick one to share. It doesn’t need to be perfect, it just needs to be real. It helps me to imagine every post is just for a single close friend or loved one rather than hundreds of thousands reading it. If you post weekly, that’s 52 chances a year for people to see your voice, your ideas, and your story. That is worth it. So here’s my question: What’s one idea from this list you could turn into a post this week?
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I remember I was heading into a board meeting when our office janitor, Mr. Ellis, stopped me. He said, "Your name tag's upside down." My first instinct? → Brush it off. → Pretend I didn't need help. → Protect my pride. Instead, I paused and said, "Thanks for looking out for me." He smiled and replied, "Doesn't matter your title. You represent all of us when you walk into that room." That single moment with Mr. Ellis's big brown eyes shifted how I viewed leadership forever. Six months later, I stood in that same boardroom, presenting a critical strategy. Not because I knew everything. But because I walked in carrying the quiet confidence that comes from respecting everyone who makes our work possible, from the janitor to the CEO. And respect carries more weight than any title ever could, regardless of the room you're in. Here's what most professionals get wrong: They think career growth is about impressing those above them. They forget that everyone, from the janitor to the CEO, sees how you really show up. They underestimate the wisdom in people that society often overlooks. But the highest-impact leaders I've coached share one trait. They lead with respect. → They treat every person like they matter. → They know trust isn't reserved for titles. → They understand influence starts with how you make people feel. That's how careers grow, not just in skill but in humanity. The C.H.O.I.C.E.® Framework makes this real: Courage: Stand for dignity, even when no one's watching. Humility: Know you're not above anyone. Openness: Learn from every voice. Integration: Turn respect into everyday actions. Curiosity: Ask people about their stories. Empathy: See the person behind the role. Here's how to start leading with respect and grow your career: ✅ Start small. → Thank someone whose work often goes unseen. → Respect is built in micro-moments that matter. ✅ Listen deeply. → Instead of dismissing someone's input, ask: → "What do you see that I might be missing?" ✅ Model humanity. → Show others how to treat people well, no matter their title. → Respect shapes culture and careers. The more senior you become, the more your treatment of junior staff defines you. Your peers judge your character not by how you handle power but by how you treat those without it. 💭 Who's someone "behind the scenes" who taught you about leadership? ♻️ Tag someone who leads with humanity. ➕ Follow Loren Rosario - Maldonado, PCC, for career coaching that's human to the core.
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I built a Top 100 Global video podcast on Spotify. Here’s exactly how I did it. Six months ago, I launched Hot Smart Rich, a video-first podcast for anyone obsessed with the future of culture, creators, startups, and self-growth, on Spotify. We hit Spotify’s Top Business Podcasts in week one. Since then, we’ve charted 7 times, peaked at #5 in the U.S., and landed in Spotify’s Top 50 US podcasts overall. What surprised me most? How quickly video unlocked growth. On Spotify, my audience could seamlessly switch between watching and listening—just like the 300M+ listeners on the platform doing the same thing. That flexibility helped us attract not just more fans, but the right fans. The kind who binge episodes, send me DMs, share clips with their group chats, and now proudly call themselves HSR Angels. And yes, I turned it into a business. Through the Spotify Partner Program with Spotify for Creators, creators can monetize video content without giving up creative control. It’s real revenue, real reach, and a real community. (And let’s be honest: most platforms can’t say that.) If you’re thinking about launching, here’s what I’d tell you: - It is not too saturated. But you do need a plan. Get clear on your tone, flow, format, and point of view. Your audience doesn’t want a copy—they want something new. - Don’t waste money on aesthetic fluff. No one cares about your new photoshoot. Spend that cash on solid audio, decent lighting, and a camera that works. We started with iPhones. - Cut up your clips like your life depends on it. Post. Everywhere (Including Spotify). All the time. - Be consistent. Experiment early. When no one’s watching, try things. Switch formats. Get weird. Then double down on what hits. - Make it your personality. If you’re not hyping your own show, no one else will. You don’t need millions to start. You just need a camera, a mic, a message, and Spotify. Check out how to grow your video on spotify below. https://lnkd.in/gnB5ejaS #podcast #business #spotify #spotifypartner #videopodcast #growth
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Are you really happy in your career, or are you just stuck in a path because it’s comfortable? Our priorities shift, and so should our careers. It’s not weak to change direction. It’s a sign of growth and a willingness to align what you do with who you’ve become. 9 Steps to Changing Your Career Path: 1. Reevaluate your priorities ↳ Does your current job align with what matters to you now? 2. Identify your core values ↳ What do you stand for today? Does your career reflect that? 3. Understand the financial impact ↳ What’s the real cost of switching? How will it affect your lifestyle? 4. Leverage your existing skills ↳ How can you apply what you already know in a new industry? 5. Network with those in the field ↳ Learn from people who are already doing what you want to do. 6. Test the waters ↳ Take on side projects or freelance work to get a feel for the change. 7. Update your personal brand ↳ Revamp your LinkedIn and resume to reflect your new direction. 8. Set clear goals and timelines ↳ Make the transition with purpose and action. 9. Let go of the past ↳ Release limiting beliefs about your career and identity. The best time to pivot is when you feel that discomfort. It’s a sign of something better ahead. When was the last time you thought about changing your career?
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At 26, I thought I needed all the answers before starting. At 32, I realize I only needed to start—and I’m exactly where I need to be. Key lessons from my entrepreneurial journey (that you might need to hear): 1. Building a business isn't just about profits - it's about building people. Some of my best hires were freshers who grew into pillars of my company. 2. Your timeline is your own. Being 32, single, and running a successful business isn't a paradox - it's a choice to live life on your own terms. 3. The best investments aren't always from VCs - they're your clients who believe in you and your team members who invest their time and talent. 4. When family and business mix, keep them in separate bowls. Do business with strangers, and keep family for love. 5. Your employees aren't just resources - they're your partners in success. When they ask for a raise, remember: retention is cheaper than replacement. 6. A gap in your resume isn't failure - it's often the bridge to something better. I left a job in 6 months and built a successful agency. 7. Time tracking doesn't equal productivity. Trust your team, focus on results, and watch creativity flourish. 8. True leadership means supporting your team's dreams, even when it means letting them go pursue higher education. 9. The customer isn't just always right - they're the real CEO. Every business decision should start and end with them. 10. Authenticity in business partnerships matters. Choose collaborators who truly align with your values, not just your profit margins. 11. You can be a woman who manages both family and business. Breaking stereotypes isn't about choosing one over the other - it's about defining success on your own terms. My challenge to aspiring entrepreneurs in 2025: - Trust your instincts - Invest in your people - Build with authenticity - Break stereotypes Remember: Success isn't about fitting into someone else's mould - it's about having the courage to create your own. What lesson resonated most with you? #lesson #entrepreneurship
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Career growth isn’t always tied to a new job title or promotion. Sometimes it looks like: Leading your first meeting Giving feedback to your boss Saying no when you used to always say yes Advocating for your ideas and seeing them implemented When I started my career, I thought the only way I could grow was through promotion. But the biggest growth I’ve experienced has come from the in-between: - The season I learned how to ask better questions - The projects I took on without a fancy title - The confidence I built in meetings where I used to stay silent You don’t have to wait until your next job to feel like you’re progressing. You’re allowed to recognize your growth right now. Career growth is not just vertical. Sometimes it’s internal. Sometimes it’s emotional. Sometimes it’s invisible to others, but powerful to you. So if no one’s said it yet: You are growing. And it does count. #StephSynergy
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“I was 26, jobless, and scrolling LinkedIn at 2 a.m., convinced I was already a failure.” This is the story of one of my students. Every scroll felt like a punch in the gut: Batchmates at Deloitte. Seniors at Microsoft. Friends flaunting “promotion” posts. Meanwhile, his inbox was filled with rejection emails. He kept telling himself: “I’m behind. I’m not good enough. I’ve lost the race.” But here’s the truth I reminded him 👇 ➡️ Your friend’s success is not your failure. ➡️ Everyone has a timeline. Some bloom at 22. Some at 32. Some at 42. ➡️ The only race you lose is the one where you keep looking sideways. Here’s how we changed my student’s career and mindset: 1️⃣ We Reframed “Late” As “Learning” Instead of obsessing over where others were, he built a list of what skills he wanted to master in 6 months. By focusing on his growth curve, not someone else’s, he stopped drowning in comparison. 2️⃣ We Measured Progress, Not People We created a tracker: ✔️ Number of interviews attempted ✔️ Number of rejections (yes, they count!) ✔️ Lessons learned from each round This gave him control. Instead of chasing milestones he couldn’t control (offers), he celebrated consistent action. 3️⃣ We built his “Career Story.” Not a list of roles. A narrative. Why he started, how he grew, what he learned. Stories stick. Buzzwords don’t. 4️⃣ We trained his mindset, not just his answers. He walked into interviews owning his journey, not apologizing for it. Confidence is 80% of interview success. Answers are the other 20%. The result? From multiple rejections to 3 job offers in under 6 weeks. Not because he “caught up” with his peers… But because he stopped running their race and started building his own. 👉 If you’re losing sleep because someone else is ahead, remember: 📌 Comparison kills growth. 📌 Consistency builds it. Your career is not a sprint. It’s a marathon with different start times. 💬 If you need help silencing the noise and building your roadmap to your dream job, drop me a message. #careergrowth #interviewtips #mindsetmatters #dreamjob #interviewcoach
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This little girl is Born & raised in Ethiopia. ✨ She wanted to become a doctor as a child & played like one. ✨ She ended up going to law school & graduated with LLB degree in law, interned for an NGO & worked as a legal expert at government. ✨ 2013 - immigrated to the US from Ethiopia, 7 months pregnant with baby #2. Embraced the challenge of starting a new life. Had baby & went back to school. ✨ 2014 - First job in the US as an on-call medical interpreter & began a part-time work-study position at the same community college library where she studies her associates degree. Learned how to drive for the 1st time at 28 & got her driver’s license. ✨ 2015 - Welcomed baby #3. Discontinued interpreting gig due to childcare struggles. ✨ 2016 - Graduated with an AS degree in computer programming & transferred to a 4-year university. Simultaneously, began a part time IT internship at the local government, paving the way for her career. ✨ 2017- As an undergrad senior, she discovered her passion for #cybersecurity through a collegiate cyber defense competition, representing her university. ✨ 2018 - Certified in Network+ & Security+. After 3 IT internships, landed her first full-time job in IT/IS audit. Graduated with a Bachelor's degree in Computer Science. ✨ 2019 - Certified in Cysa+ & CISA. Became a homeowner, welcomed baby #4 , & embarked on a journey to grad school specializing in cybersecurity. ✨ 2020 - Transitioned to a new job as an Information Security Engineer at state government. Promoted to a senior role within 6 months. Certified in AWS CCP. ✨ 2021 - Achieved CCSK certification & despite never owning her own children’s book taught herself to self-publish & wrote her 1st children's book, "Proud in Her Hijab." Began a new role in cloud security engineering at a Fortune 500 organization. More certifications - SANS GCLD & KCNA. Honored with 1st professional & books awards. ✨ 2022 - Published her second children's book, "Oh, No... Hacked Again!" More AWS certification. Continued to earn recognition, winning 3 more professional awards. Made her first keynote speech & shared her journey through articles, podcasts, & news media. ✨ 2023 - Graduated with a master's degree in cybersecurity from Georgia Tech University, 1st generation. Delivered her first TEDx Talk, creating her first LinkedIn Learning course. Honored as a "40 under 40" recipient as well as 3 more awards, published another bestseller, 3rd children’s book "See Yourself in Cybersecurity." She is married for nearly 15 years & a mom to 4 kids aged 13 - 4 year old. As an adult this little girl would still be awork in progress, growing everyday & a lifetime learner. She is proud of the progress she makes, the woman she becomes & competes with no one but herself! Advice to younger self - you are way more capable of accomplishing anything you aspire to be no matter how it may seem unreachable. Believe in yourself before anyone does. This little girl is ME! #thislittlegirlisme
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Hundreds of Amazonians have reached out recently, asking for advice on what it’s like after Amazon. So I’ve decided to share it here: If you’re thinking of leaving, or already have, this is what you need to know: ��� The pace will feel slower. Amazon moves at an insane speed. Most companies don’t. Expect delays, longer meetings, and decisions by committee. You’ll either learn patience or lose it. • Keep the data obsession. It’s a superpower. But learn to read the room. You won’t always have clean inputs, real-time dashboards, or a WBR-style rhythm. And you’ll rarely hear “What does the data say?” as often as you did at Amazon. • Storytelling is essential. Most people don’t understand the scale you’ve worked at. Translate it. Saying “I managed a £100m process” means nothing unless you bring it to life. • Expect ambiguity, just a different kind. At Amazon, you often had autonomy with clear goals. Outside, you may find the opposite: unclear goals, but everyone has an opinion. • Titles are… strange. You’ll meet ‘VPs’ doing entry-level tasks, and ‘managers’ with million-pound P&Ls. Don’t get hung up on it. • Speed doesn’t always mean impact. Your instinct will be to move fast and fix things. But others may not want it fixed. Politics and legacy processes often win. • You’ll probably miss the intensity. Not straight away, but eventually. The bar-raising conversations, the ownership, the urgency. It’s hard to find elsewhere. • You were a small part of something huge. That’s not a bad thing. But be ready for the shock of seeing end-to-end operations at much smaller places. You’ll either thrive or feel exposed. • Be mindful of how you show up. “At Amazon, we used to…” gets old quickly. Bring the mindset, not the name. • You can make it outside. But it takes adjustment, and often, humility. Don’t assume everyone wants to work the way you did at Amazon. Some do. Many don’t. And that’s okay. Because the goal isn’t to recreate Amazon. It’s to take the best of what you learned, and build something better with it. If you’re making the jump, back yourself. You’ve done hard things at a world-class level. Now it’s just about finding the right place to apply it. If you’ve left Amazon or are thinking about it, leadership becomes personal. For honest insights on what comes next, subscribe to the newsletter. Link’s in the comments.