Jen Glantz shared this
10 YEARS AGO 💕✨
On March 19th, 2016 I walked into @irvingfarmcoffee swearing out loud that if this date didn’t work out, I’d quit trying. A month before, a psychic at a single’s party told me that I’d never find love. I’d just finished going on 14 really rocky first dates in an attempt to prove her wrong. Every sign from the universe was pointing to her being right.
I went to delete every dating app off my phone when I got one more message: Hey, you never replied but I’d really love to meet for coffee.
Fine. FINE. Fine.
They always say before you ditch, you should give it one more go.
All of a sudden, the door flew open, & this guy with wide-open bright eyes & a Disney-like smile came through the door, beaming with excitement to meet...me? Meeeee? I had never met someone so happy in my entire life. I had never sat across from someone so thrilled to be living his freaking life.
15 minutes into the date, I swallowed the gum I had been chomping on, sat up straight, and thought: Get yourself together, Jen. He is unlike the rest.
FIVE YEARS LATER, on March 19th, 2021, at that same coffee shop, we got married.
SEVEN YEARS LATER, on March 19th, 2023, hours after visiting that same coffee shop, at 42 weeks and 3 days pregnant, I went into labor with Gemma.
TEN YEARS LATER, on March 19th, 2026, at that coffee shop, I tried to figure out what we talked about on that date. It’s all so fuzzy. I asked Adam what he thought of me in that first hour. Why he ever wanted to see me again. He was filled with helium. I felt like I was treading invisible water, trying not to gasp for air like a fool.
I just knew I wanted to see you again, he said.
We've spent 3,600+ days together since that date. We've lived in millions of diff places, made thousands of decisions, spent hundreds of middle of the night hours talking through our eyes about how to get Gemma back to sleep, & made it through THE hardest couple of YEARS of my life that began happening only three months after we met.
How? HOW? How?
I don't know. I just know that every night when I go to sleep I think how lucky I'll be to wake up and live this wild little life with him again for now, and forever 💕✨