Why do we wait?
Did you ever consider the irony of the term “paying last respects”? Isn’t it telling that the last thing we do for a person after they have passed-away is to “pay them respects”?
It’s obvious that respect is baked into our DNA as human-beings, and reflected in our world-culture as a foundational value. Respect is so important, we give respect even in death.
Here’s a challenge to us all. Why not do a better job of giving respect to people while they are alive, so they can receive their “payment” now? I’m willing to start, one conversation at a time.
Steve Van Valin
Steve Van Valin is CEO of Culturology
Culturology works with leaders who believe culture is the key to unlocking their strategic advantage
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Sorry to know of your Dad's passing, Steve. My dad is 89 and counting! A true blessing.
Agreed, Steve. This message can be reinforced every day--both with people we love as well as with all the rest of humanity we encounter. Thank you, and my sincere sympathy on the loss of your father.
Since I posted this, my Dad passed away on December 9th. I had the beautiful experience of sharing a few emotional moments of closure complete with appreciation and love. He was only 83 but lived an amazing life as the most diversely talented person I've ever known. From music, art, sports, landscape, outdoorsmanship, photography, craftmanship and spirituality - he could do it all. He was the best at anything he focused upon, including over 50+years as a dentist. Robert VanValin was the 4th generation dentist in my family line, that alas, ended with me. I will miss his intensity, curiosity, and passion for anything special or uniquely created by man or God. I salute you Dad and thank you for showing me the world through your eyes.