Facial Expression
Your Facial Expression reveals how you feel about your topic or issue.
Listeners are looking for cues about your attitude toward the subject. Be natural - don't try to evoke an expression.
A warm genuine grin works fine as a facial "ready position". Save your poker face for the casino.
Avoid:
- Tight-lipped, overly serious expressions that are off-putting
- Over-smiling - can appear insincere or nervous
- Wincing, frowning or smirking creates a visual and then mental & emotional barrier
- Tilting your head to either side can appear quizzical, unsure or cocky
- Tilting your head back or chin up can appear arrogant
What Works:
- Be genuine, show natural and appropriate emotions for your topic
- A warm, natural smile, lips slightly upturned at the corners, draws listeners in
- Practice speaking and smiling in a mirror to see and feel your genuine smile
- Practice showing different emotions in the mirror as you practice speaking
Benefits:
- You become fully and genuinely engaged in your topic
- Listeners more easily read your expression for the fuller meaning and intent on your words
- Listeners find you more approachable, connected and genuine