Performative stuff kills teams. Uncertainty, rigidity, fear changes how people show up. Often we shrink under pressure because it feels safer. Without safety, risk feels high. There are many signals of healthy teams. In my years leading teams in tech comms, marketing and product…. Here are 3 really important signals many leaders miss. They are the precursor to bold speaking, collaboration and big ideas. Teams burnout not just out not just because of work load or cognitive heaviness; they often burn out under the weight of performative bs. It is mentally exhausting. Team culture doesn’t have to suck. Reach out. I offer interactive keynotes and humorous workshops for that make bold possible. Kathy(at)keepingithuman. I have spoken at companies including Cisco, Kaiser Permanente, Stanford University and Hospital, AAA, Amazon AWS, The Ohio State University, Gatorade and more. Q: which resonates with you? What would you add? #leadership #teamculture #highperformingteams #healthyteams #humor #laughter #burnout
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Operating in Change: A Practical Shift for Leaders 1. Reset the Mindset Change isn’t something your team goes through. It’s the condition they work in. Shift: From “How do I roll this out?” → “How does this show up in my team’s day-to-day work?” 2. Clarify What Actually Matters (Now) Most teams aren’t overwhelmed by change, they’re overwhelmed by competing priorities.(say it again out loud) → Identify your top 3 priorities (not 10) → Be explicit about what is NOT a priority right now → Reconfirm weekly: what’s still true? What changed? Watch for: Stacking new work without removing old work. 3. Translate, Don’t Cascade Sending information down is not the same as making it usable. In every team meeting, answer: → What does this change mean for us specifically? → What do we need to do differently this week? Watch for: Repeating corporate messaging without context. 4. Anchor on 2–3 Behavior Shifts If everything changes, nothing changes. Define the 2–3 behaviors that matter most right now: → Faster decision-making → More cross-team collaboration → Consistent use of a new tool Reinforce them in real work, not in decks. Watch for: Trying to change everything at once. 5. Build a Weekly Friction Loop Resistance is useful, if you actually use it. Ask your team weekly: → What’s slowing us down? → What doesn’t make sense? Then escalate and resolve visibly. Watch for: Ignoring friction until it becomes disengagement. 6. Make Progress Visible People don’t resist change, they resist uncertainty. → Share what’s working, what’s not, and what’s changing → Call out decisions, especially what you stopped doing Watch for: Only communicating at the start and end. 7. Redefine Your Role as a Leader Your job is no longer to protect your team from change. Your job is to help them operate within it. If change still feels disruptive to your team, it’s not because there’s too much of it. It’s because it’s not yet built into how you operate. #leadership #changestrategy #communication #operationalizechange #clarity #behaviorchange #collaboration #growthmindset
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Is your team on autopilot? People show up. They do what’s required. They check the boxes. And then they count the minutes until they can leave. Not because they’re lazy. Not because they don’t care. But because somewhere along the way, they stopped feeling connected to the work, the mission, and the people around them. Disengagement doesn’t happen overnight. It happens slowly when people no longer feel: • valued • challenged • heard • inspired • connected to purpose And when that happens, performance drops, communication weakens, culture suffers, and burnout quietly takes over. The good news? Engagement can absolutely be rebuilt. Here are 3 ways leaders can start changing this immediately: 1️⃣ Create Meaning Beyond the Task People don’t just want a paycheck — they want purpose. Help your team understand why their work matters and how it contributes to the bigger picture. 2️⃣ Build Real Human Connection Teams thrive when people feel psychologically safe, supported, and seen. Strong culture is built through conversations, trust, recognition, and connection — not just meetings and metrics. 3️⃣ Challenge and Develop Your People People disengage when they feel stagnant. Growth creates energy. Invest in development, collaboration, creativity, and opportunities that stretch your team beyond routine. The strongest organizations aren’t the ones with the fanciest perks. They’re the ones where people feel connected, inspired, and motivated to contribute at a higher level. That’s where real human performance begins. If you’re noticing a shift in morale, communication, or motivation within your team, let’s connect!! #Leadership #EmployeeEngagement #TeamCulture #HumanPerformance #BurnoutPrevention #LeadershipDevelopment #WorkplaceCulture #TeamDevelopment #EmployeeExperience #OrganizationalLeadership
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Are we allowed to disagree at work?🤔 In today’s business world, we often try too hard to find a perfect consensus. The result? Endless meetings, delayed decisions, and fake harmony. But "Agree to Disagree"isn't a sign of giving up. It's actually a powerful tool for modern leadership and *New Work*. It simply means fully respecting someone else's point of view, accepting that you don't see eye-to-eye, and still moving forward together professionally. 🤝 ### Why a healthy debate culture is a game-changer: 🚀 * Saves time: No more talking in circles. You make a decision and move on. * Psychological safety: It creates real space for diverse perspectives and true innovation. * Stronger culture: Trust grows when people feel safe to share different opinions without risking their professional relationships. I created a short worksheet to break this down (see the infographic below). Save it, share it with your team, or use it as a quick talking point for your next meeting! 👇 *(Note: Infographic created with AI assistance)* #NewWork #CorporateCulture #Leadership #Teamwork #PsychologicalSafety
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We’ve all been there, running through the motions of a 1-2-1, checking boxes, and getting polite, surface-level answers. But as this post highlights, "polite" rarely drives performance. In my work with executive teams, I’ve found that the quality of a leader's output is directly tied to the quality of their curiosity. If you want specific results, you have to ask specific questions. Question #3 is a personal favourite: "What’s a decision you’re waiting on from me?" It takes courage to ask, but it’s the fastest way to clear the path for your team. Which of these 5 questions would change the dynamic of your next 1-2-1? #ExecutiveCoaching #LeadershipDevelopment #EffectiveCommunication #TeamGrowth #CoachingMalta
When you ask "How are you?", you’ll almost always get the same default response: "I’m good, thanks. You?" It’s a polite social script, but in a high-stakes leadership environment, it’s a wasted opportunity. It doesn't uncover bottlenecks, it doesn't build trust, and it definitely doesn't help your team grow. If you want to move past the surface and actually support your people, you need to change the prompt. Try these 5 questions in your next 1-on-1 instead: 1. "What’s the one thing on your plate this week that’s draining your energy?" Why it works: It identifies friction points before they lead to "Quiet Cracking" or burnout. 2. "If you could remove one recurring meeting or process from your week, what would it be?" Why it works: It permits them to be a "process architect" and helps you spot organisational bloat. 3. "What’s a decision you’re waiting on from me that’s holding you back?" Why it works: It turns the mirror on you. It identifies where you are the bottleneck without making the employee feel like they’re "complaining." 4. "What’s one thing you’ve learned this week that we should be sharing with the rest of the team?" Why it works: It reinforces a growth mindset and moves the conversation from "tasks" to "insights." 5. "On a scale of 1–10, how 'clear' is our current priority? What would it take to get to a 10?" Why it works: It measures alignment. If they say 7, you now have a specific gap to bridge. Better leadership starts with better curiosity. When you ask specific questions, you get specific data. When you get specific data, you can provide meaningful support. Which of these would be the most revealing for your team right now? #LeadershipTips #Management #ExecutiveCoaching #EmployeeEngagement #OneOnOnes
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People don’t want ping-pong tables, free snacks, or corporate jargon. ❌ They want these 5 things instead: 1. Psychological Safety ↳ A workplace where you can speak up, make mistakes, and challenge the status quo without fear. Innovation doesn't grow in quiet rooms. 2. Autonomy & Trust ↳ Freedom to execute your work without a microscope over your shoulder. Trust builds accountability; micromanagement builds exits. 3. Clear Growth Paths ↳ Mentorship and real skill-building. Stagnation is the quickest way to turn a high-performer into an ex-employee. 4. Authentic Recognition ↳ A genuine "thank you" from leadership that acknowledges the effort, not just the metric. People stay where they feel valued. 5. Sustainable Pace ↳ Burnout doesn't care about your promotions or hitting quarterly targets. Protect the engine (your mind and body), not just the output. Culture isn't built by corporate slogans on a wall. It’s shaped by who leadership trusts, empowers, and promotes. What’s the one thing you wish more companies focused on today? 👇 ♻️ Repost if this resonates with your professional journey. ➕ Follow for more insights on human-first leadership and process improvement. #Leadership #WorkplaceCulture #Management #PersonalDevelopment #BurnoutPrevention
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As we move through Q2, workloads tend to build, especially in the tech space where things move quickly. It’s often when we start to see signs of burnout appear, so here are a few things to look out for: - The people who go quiet when they’re usually switched on - The ones who say they’re “busy” but seem completely drained - Messages getting shorter, replies taking longer, or stopping altogether - People pulling back from things they’d normally be part of If you think a colleague might be struggling: - Check in gently and give them the space to open up in their own time - Keep it simple and really listen, without trying to fix everything - Let them know you understand, even if it’s just acknowledging how they feel - Offer small, practical help where you can - Respect their boundaries and keep things between you What are you doing to support your team right now? #Leadership #TeamWellbeing #BurnoutPrevention #WorkplaceCulture #TechLeadership
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Get the People Right. Everything Else Is Noise. “Culture eats strategy for breakfast.” — Peter Drucker (And let’s be honest… culture doesn’t even wait for coffee.) Most leaders get the order wrong. They obsess over metrics, revenue, and dashboards—as if one more report is going to magically fix everything. It won’t. If it did, Excel would be running your company by now. 1. Your people Not KPIs. Not dashboards. Your people. Yes, the humans. The unpredictable, coffee-dependent ones. Everything flows from how you treat them. Strong teams solve problems before you even hear about them Weak teams are the problem—and they meet often about it Culture shows up in execution (not in posters or Town Hall speeches) The wrong people in power can destroy trust faster than you can say “alignment meeting” You can have the best plan in the world—but if your team is disengaged, you’ve basically built a Ferrari with no engine. Looks great. Goes nowhere. 2. Your integrity Leadership gets real when it costs you something. Anyone can talk about values when things are going well. The real test? Do you keep your word when it’s inconvenient? Do you make the tough call when no one is watching? Do you hold the line when cutting corners would be easier (and faster… and cheaper… and tempting)? Trust is not built in one big heroic moment. It’s built in the thousand small moments where you don’t take the easy way out. Also, your team is always watching. Even when you think they’re not. Especially then. 3. Your resilience Here’s the bad news: things will go wrong. Schedules will slip. Plans will change. Someone will send “just a quick update” that ruins your afternoon. Your job? Not to panic. Absorb pressure Provide clarity Keep moving forward Your team takes its cue from you. If you spiral, they scatter. If you stay steady, they stay focused. Leadership is basically emotional Wi-Fi. Whatever signal you send—they pick up. Everything else is noise Most organizations spend their time optimizing things that don’t really matter. Another tool Another report Another process Another meeting about the meeting These things don’t fix broken teams. They just make broken teams more organized. Bottom line Get the people right. Hold your integrity. Stay resilient. Everything else? Just… well-structured noise.
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Your team shows up. They're collegial. They meet. They smile in the all-hands... And yet something isn't clicking. - Projects stall. Tension simmers. Your best people are quietly exhausted. And you can't figure out why, because on paper, everything looks fine. Here's what most leaders miss: - There's a difference between how people behave at work and what they need to feel safe and confident in the workplace. When Personalysis works with teams, we see this gap constantly. Someone comes across as calm and easygoing in meetings, but underneath they're wired to need certainty and structure before they can truly commit. Another person appears decisive and action-oriented, but when the environment feels chaotic, they freeze up or go quiet in ways that look like resistance. The behavior you see isn't always the whole story. When teams only understand each other at the surface level (communication style, work pace, personality "type") they miss the deeper layer: the instinctive needs that drive how people process information, handle pressure, and decide whether or not to offer trust. In today's environment of restructuring, AI disruption, and hybrid confusion, those instinctive needs are being tested every single day. The teams that are actually thriving right now aren't the ones with the best processes or the coolest culture perks, they're the ones where people genuinely understand each other. It's not just how their colleagues communicate, but why they behave the way they do when the stakes are high. That level of understanding doesn't happen by accident. It requires intention, the right framework, and the courage to go deeper than the surface. Your team is worth that investment. What's one behavior on your team that you've never quite been able to explain? #Leadership #TeamDevelopment #Personalysis #OrganizationalCulture #PeopleFirst #WorkBetterTogether
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Have you ever wondered why some teams are able to overcome the crisis together? While maybe the crash collapses when it encounters a minor problem? The answer is always "Team Morale", and the key to building morale is empathy. Empathy is not just "compassion," it's when leaders try to "understand" the perspectives, feelings, and context of their team. Doing so directly affects morale. Because: 1. Build Trust: When employees feel that the leader is listened to and understood, they are not allowed to do so. They feel safe to tell the truth. Do not hide the problem. 2. Increase Engagement: Understanding makes employees feel valued, not just a tool to make money. 3. Reduce Burnout: Leaders with empathy will notice signs of stress and adjust their workload in time before morale breaks down. Many people see empathy as an immeasurable "soft skill". But scientific and business data proves that: • Gallup found that employees who feel their managers "care about them as a person" are 59% less likely to leave. • The Harvard Business Review reported that employees with managers with high empathy reported 76% less burnout compared to those with low empathy. • A study by Catalyst found that teams led by empathetic leaders are 61% more likely to innovate because employees feel safe to propose new ideas. Transforming the organization to be sustainable must start with transforming command-control into empathic-leadership to maintain morale, which is the most important resource of the team. #Empathy #Leadership #TeamMorale #PeopleManagement #OrganizationDevelopment #ChangeManagement
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More and more, I'm seeing a breakdown in connection at the root of my clients' challenges. Friction with colleagues. Micro-managing. Acting as expert rather than partner. The common thread? They're leading from their HEAD — not their HEART. Explaining, justifying, clinging to being right. But here's what 'being right' is actually costing them: Trust. Perspective. Better ideas. Deeper relationships. Productivity. The antidote isn't a new framework or a better argument. It's curiosity. · How are my interactions contributing to the friction? · What might it look like to empower my team AND hit the outcome? · How do I show up so this client walks away with what they need? Wonder is a powerful starting point. In my latest Substack post, I go deeper — including where this showed up in my own life this weekend, and what I'm slowly learning about leading with love and connection even when it's hard. One prompt that I’d love to hear comments on is: What's one pattern that gets in the way of your connection with others? #connection #leadership
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Yes!! Humor is a sign of comfort, safety, and connection!