Creating A Feedback Culture

How you receive feedback Determines how successful you become (in career and life). 4 proven tips to help you gracefully accept the gift of feedback: 1/ Listen actively Why: By approaching feedback with curiosity, you show a willingness to listen to understand (vs. to respond) the other person's perspective. How: Maintain eye contact, nod to acknowledge understanding, and wait until the person has finished speaking before responding. Remember, listening doesn't mean you agree with everything. "Thank you for sharing your thoughts on my presentation. I'm curious to learn more. Can you elaborate on the areas you think need improvement and what advice you have on how I can approach these differently?" 2/ Seek diverse perspectives Why: Asking for feedback from different people gives you a clearer picture of what you’re doing well and where you can improve. Plus, it helps you spot patterns in how others see your work. How: After receiving feedback on risk management from one person, reach out to others for additional perspective. "I'm looking to improve the quality of my risk management and reporting within my program. Do you have any advice for me in this area? Your input will help me de-risk execution and provide more accurate representation to stakeholders." 3/ Take time to process and reflect Why: Feedback can sting at first contact. Taking time to process it helps you manage your emotional response and consider it objectively. You can then identify key takeaways and develop a plan for implementing changes. How: "I appreciate your feedback on my communication style. I want to take some time to reflect on your suggestions and consider how to incorporate them into my interactions with the team. Can we schedule a follow-up meeting to discuss my action plan next week?" 4/ Express gratitude and close the loop Why: Expressing gratitude shows that you value the person's time and effort in providing feedback. Following up proves you’re serious about improving. How: "Thank you for sharing your feedback on my project estimations. Your input on factoring dependency review timelines has given me valuable perspective. Attached is the revised proposal based on your suggestions. I welcome any additional feedback you may have." PS: Feedback is not all-or-nothing. Even if you don't agree with everything, there's usually something valuable to take away. PPS: How gracefully you handle feedback directly correlates with whether others will give it to you (again). Image Credit: Roberto Ferraro

HR doesn’t need more dashboards. It needs better listening. Most people teams measure what’s easy…like engagement scores or turnover. But the best teams? They build feedback loops that help them predict problems, not just react to them. This post gives you 11 of the most useful, often-overlooked loops you can implement across the employee lifecycle: 🟢 Week 2 new hire check-ins (capture early impressions) 🟠 Post-interview surveys (from both sides) 🔵 Onboarding reviews (day 90 is your goldmine) 🟡 Skip-level 1:1s (cross-level truth-telling) 🟣 Quarterly team health check-ins (lightweight, manager-led) …and 7 more. 📌 Save this if: • You’re building a modern HR function • You want fewer “We should’ve seen this coming” moments • You believe listening is strategy Which feedback loop is missing in your company?

Great leaders aren’t great because they’re perfect. They’re great because they learn fast. This is important as we approach the performance feedback season. And receiving feedback starts with the right mindset. Early in my career, I feared feedback. I overprepared, overexplained, and tried to prove I was doing things right. I thought feedback was a verdict. I was wrong. My growth took off only when I realized that progress is directly tied to how well you learn from feedback. Once I shifted from defending my past to improving my future, everything clicked. Today, I look forward to feedback. Not because it’s easy but because it shows me where to focus. That’s how I get better. Here is what works for me:  First, I don’t try to fix everything. Pick 1-2 themes. Focus beats overwhelm. Second, I share my feedback - all of it, with my team. It builds trust and shows that I am taking my growth seriously.  Third, I make it actionable. I have a plan on how I’ll improve this week, this month, this quarter. I then measure progress to iterate. Feedback isn’t something to survive. It is the breakfast for champions. How are you planning to grow with feedback this year?

If you're a manager, and your employee is surprised by receiving a PIP / coaching plan, you've failed. Before their poor performance is a problem, you need to give feedback early and often. "I noticed you were late for standup for the second time. I just wanted you to know that it impacts our team's ability to get through standup quickly, and it can be frustrating to us all. Got it?" When the pattern becomes more serious, you need to ensure they understand the feedback is serious. And you need to own it, with "I", not "We" "That's the third time you've missed an important deadline without letting us know ahead of time. I am losing trust in your ability to deliver on your committed work. This is a problem." When serious feedback hasn't made an impact, you need to be extremely clear of where this is going, since many people don't have experience with this process. I find it helpful to make it clear that you're not the enemy. "I have warned you repeatedly that pushing code to production without peer sign-off is unacceptable. If this continues to happen, it will lead to you not working at this company anymore. I like you, and would like you to be successful, but I need to ensure that you understand what's at stake." Only then, after friendly warnings, serious warnings, and extremely clear warnings, should you proceed with PIPs/Coaching. Because only then have you actually given them a chance to improve their performance.

When I first asked my team for feedback, the room went SILENT. Why? Because speaking the truth felt too risky. This isn’t just my story, it’s the reality in countless workplaces. Here’s the truth: feedback is a minefield. 🔴 Done wrong? It breeds tension and mistrust. 🟢 Done right? It fixes problems—it transforms teams. Here’s how to get it right: 1/ Timing Is Everything ↳ Feedback during chaos? Disaster. Wait for a calm moment. ↳ A private 1-on-1 works best. 💡 Pro Tip: Start with a positive comment—it sets the tone. 2/ Lead With Solutions ↳ Complaints without fixes = noise. Solutions = action. ↳ Try this: ��We could avoid confusion with more clarity upfront. What do you think?” 💡 Pro Tip: Frame solutions as support for the team’s success, not criticism. 3/ Be Clear, Not Cryptic ↳ Instead of “Communication could be better,” say: ↳ “Inconsistent updates slow me down. Weekly check-ins might help.” 💡 Pro Tip: Use examples to back it up—clarity builds trust. 4/ Use “I” Instead of “You” ↳ Feedback isn’t a blame game. Stick to “I” statements to share your perspective. ↳ Example: “I feel I don’t have enough autonomy to contribute fully.” 💡 Pro Tip: Highlight how solving the issue benefits the whole team. 5/ Know When to Let It Go ↳ Pick your battles. Save your energy for what really matters. ↳ Does this impact the team or my work? If not, let it go. 💡 Pro Tip: Focus feedback on what aligns with team goals. 6/ End With a Vision ↳ Great feedback doesn’t just fix problems—it builds something better. ↳ Paint the big picture: “Here’s how this change could help the team hit the next level.” 💡 Pro Tip: Vision-driven feedback inspires action. The takeaway? Feedback isn’t about proving you’re right, it’s about progress. Master these steps, and you’ll not only solve problems, but you’ll also earn respect and trust. What’s your biggest feedback fail (or win)? Share it below. 👇 ♻️ Repost to help your network get better! ➕ And follow Shulin Lee for more.

"Start by asking for criticism, not by giving it. Don’t dish it out before you show you can take it." One of the biggest mistakes leaders make when trying to create a culture of feedback is skipping the most important step: soliciting feedback first. It’s easy to assume that because you’re open to giving feedback, others will be open to receiving it. But if you haven’t proven that you can take it yourself, you’re not setting the right example. People are naturally hesitant to challenge their boss directly. The risk feels high. That’s why it’s on you to make it safe - to show that you truly want to hear what they think, that you won’t get defensive, and that their candor will be met with appreciation, not punishment. Try this: In your next 1:1, ask, “What’s one thing I could do better?” Then, embrace the discomfort. Stay silent, let them respond, and listen with the intent to understand - not to reply. Feedback is a two-way street. When you lead by example, you create an environment where honesty and growth thrive. What’s one small way you’ve worked to make it easier for people to give you feedback? Let’s learn from each other.

The biggest barrier to team growth? Delivering feedback that feels like an attack rather than support. Too often, leaders focus on what’s wrong instead of how to help their team improve. But the best leaders? They create a space where feedback is: → Respectful, so it builds trust. → Constructive, so it guides improvement. → Empathetic, so it encourages effort. When feedback feels overly critical or personal, it shuts down communication and stifles progress. Want a team that grows together? Start by giving feedback that inspires rather than intimidates. How are you fostering growth with your feedback today?

In the beginning of my career, when I got corrective feedback at work – I took it as a personal attack on me & my effectiveness. Being at the end of receiving critical feedback is certainly not fun but this is what I have learned to do over the years:   1) I stifle my urge to respond immediately – even if I ferociously disagree with the feedback, I now take time to reflect. I have become cautious of my urge to react. 2) Next, I think if my relationship with the person is affecting my response to the feedback. In the past I have noticed that if I didn't trust or respect the person, I would marginalize or completely ignore the feedback & that was dangerous. 3) Then I focus on the core message & not just the words. Sometimes things are said in anger/ frustration & it distracts us from the core issue. 4) Then I ask myself if I have heard the feedback in the past & if it is a recurring theme. If I still have doubts on the validity of the feedback or it confuses me, I check with someone I trust. 5) Finally, if I believe that there is something there, I think about how I can address it & ask for help.   Feedback is not about agreeing with everything that comes our way. We have every right to throw out the toxic feedback & retain what matters. But it is about listening openly; reflecting & using it in a way that makes sense to us. #Makingthemostoffeedback

"Feedback is a gift. It's an opportunity to learn and grow" At Google, we believe in the power of feedback to drive improvement. Sometimes feedback can be tough to hear. But taking the time to unpack it, understand the perspective, and reflect on it is crucial. Why feedback matters: - It reveals blind spots we cannot see ourselves - It accelerates learning by shortcutting trial and error - It demonstrates that others are invested in your success - It creates alignment between perception and reality How to receive feedback effectively: 1. Approach with curiosity, not defensiveness When receiving feedback, your first reaction might be to justify or explain. Instead, listen deeply and ask clarifying questions: "Can you give me a specific example?" or "What would success look like to you?" 2. Separate intention from impact Remember that well-intentioned actions can still have unintended consequences. Focus on understanding the impact rather than defending your intentions. 3. Look for patterns across multiple sources Individual feedback may reflect personal preferences, but patterns across multiple sources often reveal genuine opportunities for growth. 4. Prioritize actionable insights Not all feedback requires action. Evaluate which points will have the greatest impact on your effectiveness and focus your energy there. 5. Follow up and close the loop Demonstrate your commitment by acknowledging the feedback, sharing your action plan, and following up on your progress. Creating a feedback-rich environment: - Model vulnerability by asking for feedback yourself - Recognize and celebrate when people implement feedback successfully - Make it routine through structured check-ins rather than waiting for formal reviews At Google, we've learned that organizations with robust feedback cultures innovate faster, adapt more quickly to market changes, and build more inclusive workplaces. Let's commit to seeing feedback not as criticism but as a valuable investment in our collective future. The discomfort is temporary, but the growth is lasting. #motivation #productivity #mindset

In my first year as a manager I alienated one of my reports by giving him too much feedback in a direct and pointed way. The feedback was "right" but delivered to bluntly and thus unwelcome. Just because you “can” give feedback doesn’t mean you should. The power of your feedback comes from the trust you build with your reports. Here is how you can build it: The most important thing to understand is that even if you have the institutional authority to deliver this feedback (your title), you need the relational authority before you can deliver it effectively. Read this line again please - doing so will help you avoid either giving pain or making problems for yourself (I did both). This means that your reports need to trust and respect you before they will listen to any feedback you give. You can build this trust and respect by: 0) Being Empathetic I was too blunt. I thought that only being right or wrong mattered, not how I said things or the judgment in my tone and words. I lacked Emotional Intelligence (EQ). How you say things matters, and this means not just the words you say but the real intent behind them. My intention in that early review was not truly focused on helping the person, but rather on scolding him into better behavior. I'm not surprised he reacted poorly to it. 1) Being Consistent Good managers are consistently giving feedback—both bad and good—to their reports. Make sure you are recognizing and acknowledging your employees’ strengths as much (or more) than you are pointing out their areas for improvement. This will make them feel comfortable with you pointing out room for improvement because they know you see them for more than their flaws. 2) Never surprise someone with a review. This is related to point 1. If you are consistently giving small pieces of feedback, a more serious piece of negative feedback should not blindside your employee. They should know that it is coming and understand what the issue is. 3) Deliver corrective feedback ASAP, and use clear examples. As soon as you see a pattern of behavior that needs to be addressed, address it using clear evidence. This gives the employee the chance to reflect on the behavior while it is still fresh in their minds, not months later when their review comes around. 4) Check in to confirm that you are being heard correctly Ask the employee if they understand the feedback you are giving and why you are giving it. 5) Be specific enough to drive change The more specific behaviors and examples you can use to support your feedback, the better your employee can understand that you aren’t speaking from a place of dislike or bias. This also gives them more concrete references to inform their behavior change. Readers—What other ways do you build a relationship before giving feedback? (Or, how have you messed this up?)