Building Your Network and Confidence
What does this mean for you, the solopreneur, author, coach, or small business leader? The good news: your network is your superpower. Your colleagues, clients, and friends are your best source of learning and support.
As LinkedIn Career Expert Catherine Fisher puts it, “Your network isn’t just who you know. It’s your most valuable asset when navigating change.” (bostonrealestatetimes.com). In practical terms, that means nurturing those relationships actively.
Experts offer concrete advice on this:
- Join the Conversation: Don’t wait for a crisis to talk with your network. Engage with content your contacts share. Fisher suggests “use conversations already happening to catch up with your network. If you see a post from someone you’ve been meaning to catch up with, chime in via the comments…” (fastcompany.com).
A quick comment or message about a recent post can spark the banter that leads to real connections. Always do a quick skim of someone’s recent activity before reaching out. This helps you personalize your message around their interests.
- Consistency Over Quantity: Networking isn’t a one-and-done task; it’s a practice. Fisher advises that “networking a little bit each week is sometimes better than networking a lot once a year”.
In other words, set small goals a few minutes a day to check messages, react to updates, or send a note and you’ll see progress. Reaching out regularly makes networking feel natural, not forced.
- Be Specific and Personal: When you do reach out, tailor your ask. Avoid generic lines like “I’d love to pick your brain.” Instead, list a few specific questions or topics where their expertise would help, and explain why their background is relevant.
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This shows respect for their time and highlights what you have in common. And keep it short: as Fisher notes, modern “elevator pitches” work best as impactful micro-narratives concise, personal stories that grab attention (fastcompany.com).
- Use LinkedIn’s Tools: Use technology to stay on top of your network. LinkedIn’s “Catch Up” tab (in the My Network section) tells you when connections change jobs, celebrate work milestones, or post new content natural conversation starters.
Also, LinkedIn’s new AI-powered writing assistant can draft a first message for you by summarizing a connection’s profile and suggesting talking points. These tools can save time and make outreach less awkward.
- Leverage Community: Finally, remember that contributing value to others builds trust. Share a helpful article, give feedback on a project, or introduce people. Over time, you’ll cultivate a reputation as a connector, someone whose recommendations others rely on.
By actively investing in your network, you’ll not only keep pace with change but also help others do the same. And as Catherine Fisher and others note, that confidence is key. For more tips, check out LinkedIn’s career experts (Catherine Fisher, for example, has a post on growing confidence via networking (bostonrealestatetimes.com).
At its core, networking shouldn't be about transactions but about transformation. Every genuine conversation strengthens your sense of belonging and reminds you that growth rarely happens in isolation. Confidence is built through shared stories, mutual support, and small, consistent acts of connection. As work becomes more digital and uncertain, our human networks become the most reliable form of stability.
So maybe the real question isn’t how many people you know, but how intentionally you’re showing up for the people who already believe in you. How will you invest in the network that invests in you?
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The emphasis on nurturing our networks as a source of strength is crucial. I've seen firsthand how genuine connections can transform our professional lives. It’s not just about who we know, but how we engage with them.
If we want a network that supports and shows up, thinks about us, we have to build those relationships. If not our network is just a digital collection of names. The showing up, supporting, growing, encouraging part is gone. Thanks for have a community that isn't just a group of names.
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Summer, this is so true. Growth gets so much easier when you nurture the people who already believe in your work. Relationships create the kind of momentum marketing alone never will. What’s one way you love to deepen those connections in your own community?
Deepening relationships has been such a theme for 2025. I was just talking about this with Janet; how we show up for each other in different ways and how to manage that with energy. Thanks for building spaces we want to show up in.