Shereen L.’s Post

Once, during a whiteboard challenge, a designer I was interviewing went on a full tangent about how all designers must have CPTSD to be in this field. At first, I thought they were joking. Then I realized they weren’t. They were genuinely speaking from pain and probably years of difficult experiences in toxic environments that left a mark. And I just sat there, half-stunned, half-heartbroken, trying to keep the conversation going while my brain was spinning. Because, HONESTLY? I’ve seen what this industry can do to people too. That moment stuck with me because it revealed something deeper: Design interviews are often emotional minefields. You’re expected to be creative, analytical, confident, vulnerable — ALL AT ONCE AND TO TOP IT OFF, IN FRONT OF A COMPLETE STRANGER. So if interviews drain you or mess with your confidence, here’s what I’ve learned: 1. Not every interviewer deserves (or will get) your best self. Sometimes it’s truly NOT you, it’s them..their bias, nerves, vibe, or insecurity can distort the whole dynamic. 2. If it feels off, trust that feeling. You’re NOT too sensitive. Awareness is a skill. Pay attention to how a company makes you feel during the interview, that’s how they’ll make you feel at work. 3. Rehearse your calm, not your script. Confidence isn’t memorizing answers. It’s knowing your own story so well that you can adapt it in any direction. 4. Ask meta questions. (AND ALWAYS ASK QUESTIONS PLEASE 😭) Things like: “How do design decisions usually get made here?” or “Give me an example of a situation when design and product management disagreed?” Their answers will tell you everything you need to know. And if you get nervous, THAT'S FREAKING OK!! We’ve all been there. Just try not to project your stress onto others or start diagnosing your peers mid-interview. Empathy goes both ways. If you’re a designer who dreads interviews, I get it. If you need help preparing, practicing, or reframing your mindset, message me. 😉 You don’t have to navigate this mess alone. 🙈 What’s the weirdest thing you’ve been told in an interview? #DesignInterviews #UXDesign #ProductDesign #DesignCommunity #InterviewTips

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