Career Stagnation: The Overlooked Step Most Women Skip

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Most career advice skips the most important step. It jumps straight to: 📄 Update your resume. 👤 Optimize your LinkedIn. 💬 Network more. 👩🏻💻 Apply to more jobs. And here's the problem with all of that: Those tactics assume you already know what you want — and feel confident enough to go get it. If you don't — if you're running on a decade of self-doubt — the strategy doesn't stick. It's like telling someone to eat healthy and exercise when they already know that. The information was never the problem. The internal foundation is. You cannot build a career that fits from a nervous system that's in survival mode. You have to regulate first. Get clear second. Execute third. In that order. Every time. This is the step most high-achieving women skip — and then wonder why they keep landing in the same place with a different job title. Which step have you been skipping?

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There is really no such thing as “pre-law”. So you wanted to attend law school but couldn’t get in, right? Be honest. I actually earned my law degree and my MBA from a reputable, world renowned university - Dalhousie University in Canada. The letters after your name really aren’t recognized ones. A JD, MBA, MD, RN, P.Eng., etc - and actual, legitimate Master’s degrees are. Just heard you on a podcast - SO many repetitive buzzwords. You can’t get through professional schools & master’s programs by repeating buzzwords. And you spoke briefly about “the nervous system”. You really are hopelessly unqualified to dole out any kind of actual advice. You aren’t a psychologist, scientist, nurse, physician. Nada. So be a little careful with that. Legitimate professionals who EARN their credentials have to abide by codes of ethics, for the protection of the public. “Coaches” aren’t regulated. They aren’t even close to the aforementioned professionals. Oh, and you used the phrase “ in my integrity”. That is grammatically incorrect. It is correct to say “I have integrity”. Maybe try looking up the concept and reading professional journal articles, not pop psychology.

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your workshop last year around this topic truly made the difference in my job search and i'll be using the same strategy again this time! it is really worth it to take the time to think about what you want, where are you going and how can you get there... that really helps direct the rest of your efforts and streamline the job hunting process. Highly recommend your resources Emily Liou, PHR, ELI-MP, CPC 👏

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The sequence is right, Emily. What makes it hard is that corporate spends 20 years training you to skip the first two steps and just execute, by the time you're ready to leave, that's the only gear you have.

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A lot of advice jumps straight to action without addressing what’s happening underneath. Emily Liou,

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Those steps also assume there is no catch-22 for career changers. Do you have solutions? Emily Liou, PHR, ELI-MP, CPC

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