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“You can think you are a leader all you want. But if no one is following you, you are simply taking a walk.” - Coach Balezi “Kibomango” Bagunda, a real-life Congolese boxing legend and former child soldier who trained an all-female boxing team The line was said in relation to team leadership. I’ve been reflecting on what it means in terms of self-leadership too. One of the hardest things about self-leadership is realising that sometimes the person not following through on your dreams… is YOU. Over the last few months I’ve been taking part in Fight Forward which is an elite 10-week trauma-informed boxing programme run by the incredible Lesley Sackey. A space designed to support women in building confidence and reclaiming their physical, mental and emotional strength through boxing. And honestly? It’s been stretching me in ways I didn’t fully expect. This time last week, a bunch of us from the FIGHT FORWARD C.I.C programme went to watch the premiere of Fight Like A Girl. There were so many powerful moments throughout the film and conversation afterwards, but that particular quote above stayed with me. Because it's easy to say we're going to do something for ourselves: Lead a healthier life. Find more peace. Embrace a career shift. Rest. Do joyful things. Build confidence. Heal. Explore a new beginning. But are we actually following through on what we say we want for ourselves? If I’m being honest, there have been seasons where I wasn’t. Where I knew what I needed to do, but kept hesitating. Overthinking. Waiting. Doubting - oh the doubt! Delaying. But recently? I can genuinely say I’m leading myself more. I’m not doing it perfectly or fearlessly. But I am doing it consistently. And I think that's the part that matters. So much self-trust is built through follow-through. Through keeping small promises to yourself. Through actually participating in your own growth instead of just thinking about it and collecting that evidence along the way. Always have your receipts! Anyway, if you'd like to witness some truly brilliant women stepping into their power, come along to the Fight Forward Showcase tomorrow evening! I won’t be boxing (you’re welcome 😂), but I will be hosting and cheering the ladies on loudly. And trust me… you’ll leave inspired. Come join us - I'll pop the link in the comments! 🥊